My brother is in. Relationship with a woman he met online 8 years ago. They never married but live together and have to gorgeous little girls together. Although they attend family events she keeps herself to herself and we don't know her that well. I like her a lot and am
Willing to give her the benefit of the doubt but my siblings interpret her behaviour as snobby and rude.
Anyway my DB has recently been telling me some things about their relationship. Like she has been checking his phone and ringing his work to make sure he's there. Like making it difficult for him to go out with friends or to work do's. she will snap at him very nastily one minute and be loving the next. Be nasty one minute then remorseful.
I think this is abusive and I wonder does she realise she's being abisive. He says that's just her and he can live with it. However he's my baby brother and he deserves better.
Should I have a word with her?
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reddotmum · 17/09/2016 09:05
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