Long story short, just got divorced complete nightmare and XH emptied every penny from every account I got not one penny.
He pays no maintenance.
Has seen DC twice in a year.
Now he can't fight with me re divorce he wants to suddenly see the DC except he doesn't really.
I have suggested a third party person (family member, or solicitor) he refused, I suggested a schedule of visits he refused. I put us in touch with a contact centre who were very helpful he won't use it.
I refuse to have direct contact with him as he is just trying to yank my chain - he is so arrogant and rude and constantly changes any plans and then never turns up anyway. I just want to take myself out of the equation so he can't continue to try to control me.
I have written to his solicitor 4 times to say the above and try to make arrangements - nothing!!
Whats worse kids don't particularly want to see him i will have to force them to go.
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