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My OH is amazing

(11 Posts)
cowboysbabymaybe Tue 13-Sep-16 22:47:38

Just had shock pg news. He is here, and totally on board. He is more affectionate, if anything.
I was pretty bewildered at first, but know he'll be an amazing Dad. We have 5 between us. Both of us are resident parents.
We have logistical issues to resolve, but he is 100% on board. They aren't all tossers!

CuriousPorge1975 Tue 13-Sep-16 23:51:44

Well done, have a trophy.

NumbNelly Wed 14-Sep-16 10:16:18

Curious this isn't AIBU. Why so rude?

Good for you OP. It can be disheartening to see all the threads about the bad ones so it's good to see a nice one for a change.

90daychallenger Wed 14-Sep-16 10:17:53

Good news OP!
But I don't really see that a man should be called 'amazing' just for not being a total arsehole when he finds out there exists a baby which he had 50% role in creating.

plimsolls Wed 14-Sep-16 10:18:48

Great news. Your happiness and relief shines through the post. I'm pleased for you flowers

MadameCholetsDirtySecret Wed 14-Sep-16 10:20:16

Congratulations.

Ignore the rude shit and enjoy your pregnancy.

cowboysbabymaybe Wed 14-Sep-16 13:31:20

Thanks, to the nice posters.

Sometimes it's very difficult to know what to think. Unexpected situations create unexpected reactions.
We all have a backstory, and mine involves an adoring husband and father, who suddenly ghosted us. The fallout was unimaginable, unless you've been there. I would out myself by saying much more, but there were additional circumstances which made me lose faith in the opposite sex.
Unsurprisingly, I was totally shell shocked after I had POAS. I was in two minds about telling him, or even accepting it myself.

I'm certainly not one who regularly appears here to gloat. I have had no reason to.

benbry Wed 14-Sep-16 14:27:32

Congratulations OP, he sounds like a keeper. It's nice to read about a decent man on here, far too many of the other sort.

TooDamnNosyy Wed 14-Sep-16 14:35:59

Great news, Congratulations!!! You don't see this enough on MN! I wish you all the happiness grinflowers xxx

Ninasimoneinthemorning Wed 14-Sep-16 14:45:29

Congratulations op flowers

Lovely post star

6demandingchildren Wed 14-Sep-16 14:58:38

I have 6 and all but 1 was a surprise.
I have an amazing hubby as well even if he thought I was having an affair when we found out about our youngest but only because he had chemo and was told no more kids. ......

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