I have namechanged for this!
So I started a new job a few months ago, working very closely with a male colleague. I am happily married with a Ds however I have noticed something between me and this colleague and I'm not sure what it is.
Basically he is my boss, and we clicked straight away. He has disclosed some very personal things an openly talks about his (bad) relationship with his wife and family. He often winks at me and tells me how easy it is to talk to me. Last week he intimated how dissappointed he was that I was going on annual leave. He also told me of an argument he had with his wife over me (she is jealous that he is working with someone younger than him), an has somehow found the need to tell me this a couple of times almost like he is wanting a reaction of some sort from me.
I have found myself disclosing stuff to him without really meaning to but i find it easy to talk to him too.
For the record I am not looking for an affair and nor do I find him attractive in any way however I can't help but feel there is somehing developing between us and I'm not sure how to stop it if there is.
I'm hoping it is just friendship and we just get in really well like I do with all my friends, do I just feel differently because he is male?
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magichen · 13/09/2016 12:54
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