Hi All,
I have been in a LDR for about 2 months. We have met each other & plan to see each other again soon.
I have always been very vocal about things that may annoy me in a relationship with previous partners, for instance if their behaviour is disrespectful.
However, with my new partner, it's hard to do that. We used to be able to talk for hours and laugh and joke, now I don't feel like that.
I feel like I have to hold back, I can't open my mouth & say what I want. For instance, sometimes he will ignore me when I know he's online. He's also been acting distant. I'm not ok with this behaviour. But if he calls again I want to raise this, but I know he will say "all you do is argue. I don't want to talk". It's about HIS behaviour not mine! He is also criticising and just his attitude sucks sometimes. I don't want to push him away or him think everytime I talk she only has something negative to say, but I have to say what I need to say.
I do love him & I know he loves me.
How do I approach this situation?
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LDR + Anger
Rih29 · 13/09/2016 12:48
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