He's been really rude to me. Told me to fuck off . He says he is very tired but hasnt apologised.
I've told him not to come home tonight because imo he went too far and I don't want to be with someone who thinks it's OK to speak to me like that.
This has all been communicated by text . He has sent a few more messages since then, trying to draw me into an argument with him but I've not responded as I don't particularly want to get in a slanging match, especially not via text message! Plus he's meant to be working.
Legally I know I can't actually keep him out because both our names are on he tenancy agreement so I'm not sure what to do if/when he comes home later (probably around 10-10.30pm).
Did I overreact? I'm really hurt that he apparently thinks he can speak to me like shit and that that's fine. We have small children so everything's pretty hard work at the moment. But I don't think that's a good enough excuse for treating me like this.
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Told H not to come home tonight.
whatnow33 · 11/09/2016 17:50
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