Hello
So, I've had a friend, we met in a chatroom, gosh over three years ago. We got on super well and swapped numbers, planned to meet but inbetween I got in a relationship and we just sort of gave up that aspect. But we still text most weeks and have for the past three years.
We live about 300 miles apart, three hours by train. So when the opportunity presented itself for us to meet up for the first time in three years when I was in her city, we both jumped at the chance. And it was amazing! We got along so so well, had a few drinks and went for a walk and had our awkward goodbye at the train station because we both had no idea how the other felt.
Now it's three months on and we are completely crazy about each other, we're trying to sort of take baby steps but it's very hard. We've only managed to have one weekend together about a month ago since that first time but have two straight weekends together soon, which to be fair is what's keeping us both going. We talk as much as possible, text every morning until we sleep, just random stuff about our day. And we know we're not that stupid that that'll die down eventually.
However for me, I'm finding it hard to keep the balance right. I feel sometimes like I'm being swept away, this has been three years building but I'm also pretty certain we're going to end up hurt. How much is appropriate to contact each other? We have no idea, but it feels normal to talk all day so we do.
It just feels so so tough as well being apart this much, and I do it because I know those weekends we have together are amazing. We also haven't told any friends or family about us until we are sure we are heading somewhere together as in a future. It's just right in the middle of this two month period we haven't been able to see each other, so really I'm just after some positive stories that long distance can work!!
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BlueNeighbourhood · 10/09/2016 18:49
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