Hi,
I'm new to this and was hoping for some advice or your views on my current situation.
Earlier this year I suffered a subarachnoid brain haemorrhage that has consequently left me with epilepsy, depression, emotional lability and a changed personality. Unfortunately, the trauma and stress of the injury has led to me and my wife separating.
She has recently moved out to rented accommodation and has main custody of our beautiful 2 year old son. I had a critical illness paid out in my name which was used to clear both our individual credit card debts, her home improvement loan which was being repaid 50/50 until she cleared it with my payout and the remaining balance is in her account.
Our home is now for sale and she wants a 50/50 share of the equity. I feel I morally deserve more as I invested 12k of my late fathers inheritance into the home and I want this back to invest in a trust fund for our son. Due to the haemmoraghe I'm currently unable to work full time, but recently returned working 16 hours p/week which means I cannot continue to pay the mortgage, bills and childcare as I could pre-injury, I've also lost my drivers licence and can't contribute practically as I could before, and the home improvement loan she took out has been cleared with my critical illness. The remaining allowance of my critical illness is in her account, if she returned this I could cover the mortgage until it is sold. Without that money I cannot meet our son's needs when he is in my care. This home improvement loan, obviously, has added great value to our property too. My ex works full time on a reasonably good wage.
I'm really stuck as I cannot afford a solicitor. She has legal representation and using my critical illness payout to pay for that and to pay for legal mediation.
Sorry for the long message. If there is anyone on here who has any advice or views on this I would be ever so grateful.
With genuine thanks,
Darren
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DarrenWyn · 09/09/2016 23:07
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