I believe that my Dh have cheated on me. Caught him online so many times online flirting with women and I an very sure he met up with one or two of them.
Now we have joint assets 2 buy to let properties and family home here and Individual IVA ending at the end of the year. 2 teenagers.
I earn 2000 after tax and pension every month. He deals with finances.
Too late to change account details at work but will be doing this for next month.
He is quite controlling so will probably not leave easily.
My poor children will be devastated. Cannot talk to anyone in RL because I am ashamed (I know it's not my fault but atm cannot help it)
I have no need for childcare anymore so I can cope alone. Not just sure of finances.
He is not aware yet. I need to gather paper work before confronting him.
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justalurker · 09/09/2016 14:17
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