Today I've been told by DP

[Mrs2ndbest]

I'm psycho, have low self esteem and all I do is run around after the kids and I don't look after myself. If I feel bad about myself it's my problrm and not his. Yesterday I was told to lose some fucking weight but apparently he was just joking and I shouldn't be taking it to heart. I usually answer back and tell him to piss off but I've retreated to my bed in tears. I'm so trapped. I have no money and I'm a SAHM with3 kids. The woman he had an emotional affair with recently got married and he's been googling her a lot.
I feel so low and I don't have family to help

[hellsbellsmelons]

he was just joking and I shouldn't be taking it to heart
OMG - what a prick!

Tell him he has small cock and has no idea what to do with it!
See if he's OK with that 'joke'!!??

Why are you trapped?
Have you spoken to CAB to understand what you would be entitled to if you left?
Do you want to be away from him?

[Mybeardeddragonjustdied2016]

Ask him how much he he weighs. Then lose that much. Regain your self esteem and self respect. Tell him move out.

[jeaux90]

I would call is bluff and get him to do some childcare whilst you get some time to go to yoga/gym/class or whatever it is you need time for to boost your confidence and self esteem. Big hug xxx

[whattodowiththepoo]

I remember you.
You don't have to pack your bags and leave right now but can you start being proactive and making plans to leave?
I'm sure it feels overwhelming but step by step you can prove to him and yourself that you are capable of taking control of your life.
Show your kids what mum is capable of.