I am a long term inmate of mumsnet. Many name changes & much good advice, which I am in need of once again.
I worked as a topless model in my teens & then moved onto the more morally corrupt career of banking. I married young, had 2 Dcs, divorced. I then worked in the bar of a strip club to fund my degree (2:1 hons ).
I'm now in my 40s, stayed in touch with an ex (not father of Dcs) for over 20 years (now ex military).
We have met up a lot over the past couple of months. He knows my history.
Ive recently come into some money. He suggested I invest it in a strip club
I told him how I felt (again - he already knows how I feel). A few swear words were involved on my part.
I don't think he gets it. He's now saying if he knew how I felt he wouldn't have said it. To me, that's not the point. He's also said I have used this as an excuse to tell him I think he's a joke
Arrrrrrrgh. I know I'm going to drip feed & apologies in advance. I'm just feeling the rage.
I'm now reverting back to pre therapy & counselling & wanting to apologise to him (for having an opinion??? Ffs???)
Fuckity Fuck, please tell me what you think.
Ta in advance
(if I don't answer straight away it's because I'm looking after a very elderly relative - more stress)
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