I have name changed for this as it is quite identifying
I'm at a loss and don't know what to do. I don't want to drip feed so I'll give as much background as I can without outing myself
I've been involved with a guy on and off for a few years, he was quite bad news when we first got together (smoking a lot of weed, spent a lot of money gambling and had a lot of dodgy friends, cheated once) which really broke me at the time but he has changed a lot in the last year or so (we haven't been together in over a year) and he recently came back into my life & we got together again.
My mum (Dad doesn't bother much, he still speaks to me) and a few of my close friends were obviously really unhappy that he was back in my life and my mum has actually stopped talking to me so has my sister, and 3 of my really close friends have basically ditched me and barely speak to me now.
He still has issues, he hasn't stopped smoking and he still has some pretty dodgy friends but he doesn't gamble anymore and he really wants to prove himself and make us work this time around. I believe in him and I am very much in love with him.
It's like my family are making me choose by icing me and not talking to me.
I don't want to loose my family or my friends what can I do???
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Family disowning me over boyfriend
LostConfused · 01/09/2016 08:26
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