This is quite a long one so sorry please bear with me.
Been with OH 2 years and we have a 10 week old baby.
Me and my family are very close especially me and my mum. I normally speak to her every day.
I've just gotten off the phone to her and she informed me that my OH had messaged her last night trying to put me down but trying to do so in a jokey manner. Saying he thinks I let our baby fall asleep on me so it's an excuse to not do anything. Obviously my mum stood up for me and said well it is hard having a baby, just give her a break. I just find it odd that he would text her saying stuff along these lines. She's obv going to tell me!! But he isn't that close to my mum anyway so I find it even odder!!
Us 3 and my dad went to the beach Sunday and my mum said name 3 things you love about her. He couldn't do it. He really struggles to show any emotion especially being soppy weather it be just us two or in front of people. He moaned the whole time we were at the beach.
He finds it easier putting me down than to express love. He's even started telling our 10 week old "men don't cry" which I had a go at him and said if he wants to cry so be it. He's a bloody baby! He snapped back saying I don't want a sissy boy.
In an ideal world I would leave him as there are other things too. But I'm just so scared. I don't earn enough financially, I dont know where I'd go. It's tough enough now and I think how would I cope alone. I have a feeling he would try take my baby away if I left him.
What would you do? Any advice? X
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OH trying to turn my mother against me??
Peachyfizz · 31/08/2016 09:39
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