I've been with my STBX for 24 years since I was 19, I've never loved anyone else. We've been apart since December, but 'trying' to work on things. He's been distant since April, but saying he's needed 'space' and time. On Sunday I found out through a third party that he's dating a 25 year old barmaid. I'm 43, and he's 45, how does anyone get over this, we've been apart before, but I've never felt this low, I actually wanted to take my life yesterday, I feel I can't live without him, I've got 2 sons of 14 and 12, and I just don't know what to do to make him love me.
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