My MIL has stolen about 80K of GIL money over the past 3 years. She now lives with GIL to stop her going into care because she wants her house. Shes been really sly ever since my husbands grandad died in 2013. Gran in law has dementia and has got worse since grandad died. We originally thought MIL was spending money that grandad had left her in 2013. Turns out it was all grandmas money. I reported her twice and shes now been ordered to document where every penny has gone.
Shes also demanding my husbands, mine and our childrens bank statements from the past 3 years as shes helped us out now and again and spent money on our children. The problem is we have been told not to hand anything over and if they are needed a solicitor will be in touch.
I dont trust MIL and never had (she emotionally and paychologically abused me while pregnant which resulted in pnd and bonding issues). She told us that money was hers and now shes been discovered I'm worried its going to look like we have been asking for grandmas money.
Wwyd?
Aibu to stop MILs weekly visits?
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MIL Hell.
MidnightMargaritas · 29/08/2016 16:08
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