I'll try to keep this short as possible.
I have been dating someone for coming up to 6 months now. He works away a lot but I am pretty independent so this has never been an issue.
I've started to fall for him in a big way. I know he has feelings for me too but I was confused as to why he wasn't taking the relationship to any new levels (e.g. meeting friends, making medium term plans). A couple of weeks ago I initiated the 'what are we' talking he admitted that he is moving abroad in a couple of months for work (likely 2-3 years).
I didn't think that he wanted to do long distance so I finished things with him. Since we've been back in contact, I saw him yesterday and I think he is pretty gutted about it but has resigned himself to never being able to have a relationship (he moves a lot)?
I have thought a lot about it and I really would like us to give it a go.
Is it worth being honest with him to see what he says or to just leave it and move on?
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Is honesty the best policy here?
Applesandpears86 · 26/08/2016 16:14
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