OK, so my dh's stepmum has always been an extremely difficult woman. She is very jealous of dfil's relationship with dh and his sister.
She has recently made it even harder for us to all spend time together, and essentially is so rude and difficult to dh and I we just can't see how we can carry on with her in this our lives. We recently got married and although she came she blanked us all evening. We always try to include her- inviting her and dfil to dcs birthdays etc but she sucks all the joy out of any occasion.
Upshot is we want to stop seeing her. Seeing her makes us tense and is always unpleasant. Dh is understandably worried about his relationship with his dad. Has anyone successfully negotiated a step mum free relationship with their dads?
He is pretty much under the thumb but loves dh and our DC.
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Is it possible to go nc with stepmum & still see Dad?
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Indiaplain · 23/08/2016 19:51
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