Hi firstly I am male looking for a female point of view.
My wife has had an affair with another woman but says she doesn't want to have a relationship with her, but also is not certain if she wants to stay with me.
There's no way I don't want to be the main carer if we had a divorce and I think I have a good case, as does my wife.
I don't believe that if she left she would not continue the relationship and the other women has shown violent tendencies especially drunk which is often. In fact she has been aggressive towards me and my wife. I have never hit my wife and would never.
I have said I'm prepared to do anything to keep our family together.
Am I wasting my time, or do I have a chance?
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Wife having an affair I'm I wasting my time?
user1471853539 · 23/08/2016 18:57
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