Hi all.
There were many threads on EA topic and I don't know if by creating another one I will gain any insight.
But I would like to ask:
How can I spot an EA from miles away?
I started exchanging texts with someone from POF and he tried making some comments about some intimacy. I texted him back saying if he will continue in that manner he will just push me away.
What came next made me cry. I couldn't handle it.
He became rude and demanding answers like I owe him something.
And said that I jump into conclusions.
What my point was that he stops calling me sweetie and his lady when he barely knows me and haven't even seen me.
He accused me of not being able to handle jokes or simple conversations.
I am very simple girl. I don't want those big words if I'm not committed to the person. Not in that speed. And I don't through away words so easily.
I know I should take life easier and I'm trying. I just can't handle someone I haven't seen in real will call me like that.
I was shaking when he started accusing me in things I haven't had intention of doing and completely wronged me. I couldn't say anything, only told him "I will call you back."
I cried yesterday, maybe he just reminded me my past experiences, I don't know....
I switched my phone, calmed down and tried to cheer myself up.
Had 2 miss calls from him.
I deleted my profile, blocked him and deleted his texts. But I am still shaking...
I don't know what to think...
Thank you.
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Inexperiencedchick · 19/08/2016 13:53
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