So this may sound stupid from a women in her 30's but what makes a relationship work?
My parents had a horrible relationship and I have always went for the wrong type of man.
I am now with someone that is very kind, considerate, thoughtful, useful (sounds like an odd positive but my ex was useless around the house and with DIY even useless at work). He is support, not controlling and also considerate in bed. He thinks things through and thinks about me and my dd when making plans with me. We enjoy each other's company and have clicked very well.
The only thing that could be a bit of a negative is that he isn't in great shape. I don't want to sound negative so I hope I don't get mean comments for saying it as I love him even though he isn't in good shape. But I am wondering if anyone may be in a similar situation and what there thoughts are? Sometimes I look at him and notice things like his belly etc but I am still attracted to him and still like sleeping with him so I'm guessing it's probably not a problem.
But as I've never had a solid loving long term relationship I sometimes worry about me being a little commitment phobic etc and wonder if this could put me off in the future!
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movingforward2016 · 17/08/2016 15:00
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