So my background, 3 amazing DC's 8,7 and 5, split from DH 3 years ago, big relief, was happy single for a while, fully appreciate I'm happier alone than in the wrong relationship, however I am craving to be in a long term relationship. Recently out of short term relationship, he wasn't over ex, but the times we spent together both alone and with DC's are the happiest I have had for a long time, I just felt complete. I want to feel complete alone as I don't feel that my attitude is healthy and worry that I may try and settle with just someone rather than someone right for us because of craving to be in a relationship again. I know I need to stop feeling like this. How do I change my mind set? though perfectly capable of being alone, financially secure, have a good circle of friends, supportive mother, I feel that I have everything I need to be happy, yet I'm not because I want a partner, how can I change my mind set to be happy and single, I feel I have no reason not to be happy, but I'm just not
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help needed to change my attitude want to be single and happy
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RedSquirrel24 · 17/08/2016 08:38
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