Ok so I NC for this post.
I am really worried that my husband cannot stop himself from lying to me. I am completely losing my trust in him. They aren't huge life destroying lies they are stupid and relatively small lies. The true version might warrant a little comment or a small tiff even but nothing severe enough to warrant lying all the time to avoid these little arguments.
An example: this morning he got up with our 2 year old at 6 while I stayed upstairs to try and resettle our 5mo. It totally didn't work and I came downstairs at about 7 to find him lying on the couch snoozing (yeah I know I have talked to him about it but let's not go there now) I asked if he wanted breakfast and had DD1 had breakfast. He said she'd had a slice of toast which she has barely touched so he threw in the bin. I went into kitchen to make breakfast for us and saw that the bread wasn't even open and no plate. I asked him if it was a lie about the toast and he said no. I told him the bread wasn't even open so it must be and he just looked at me, didn't reply and we have been in silence ever since. Obvs I have fed the kids. I've previously pulled him on this kind of stuff and said it needs to stop but it's fallen on deaf ears.
Can anyone offer advice on dealing with lying for no apparent reason? Im not planning on LTB so that's not a suggestion I'd like to hear. Thanks ladies. R
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Is husband a compulsive liar?
freakingoutbigtime · 15/08/2016 07:42
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