I have posted before about how my H has been having affair with significantly younger woman from work. He told me he didn't love me anymore and wanted separation. I had my suspicions there was OW but didn't find out for definite until 2 weeks ago. Believe he was trying to do the whole pretence of separate first and later start a new relationship to make himself look better but at the same time was sleeping with her while still at home.
Anyway he finally left properly at the weekend. He returned on Sunday to take 2 DCs to see his new place. He is at least renting his own place rather than moving in with OW. He also took DCs last night for their first overnight and brought them back this morning on way to work. What I don't get is everytime I have seen him since he officially left (but also throughout the time we have been having 'issues') is he is still wearing his wedding ring. I haven't worn mine in well over a month since everything started falling apart. All friends and even my counsellor are confused that he is still wearing it. He is the one that decided our marriage was over (I tried to see if we could work through it) so why still wear it. Has anyone else been in same situation?
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Any thoughts - why is he still wearing wedding ring??
catty2016 · 10/08/2016 13:48
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