My brother has thrown his toys out the pram I won't let him walk me down the aisle at my wedding. I'm walking myself down the aisle. We are not close. I normally do the 3/4 hour round trip to see him once a month (if he doesn't cancel at the last minute). My bother has been to visit me once in 8 years (and only because I paid for the train ticket) My brother goes batshit as apparently it's his 'right' to walk me down the aisle! Then demanded there be extra wedding cars for the family i.e. Him! Also, expected me to drive a 3/4 hour round trip to pick him up the day before my wedding, apparently IABU expecting him to get a train (or ask for a lift from another guest) I am also apparently BU as there will ONLY be wine and water on the table during the wedding reception for people to drink (not beer) and I am not having a free bar. I am also being UR as I am getting married in a church down the road from where I live. Apparently I should have got married in the city where I grew up despite no other family members living there any more (except him) and have done this purposely to incovienence him!
I haven't heard anything from him since I receive a load of vile messages on FB from his partner which I stopped responding to.
What should I do? It makes me sad that my brother may not come to my wedding. I just want him there to support me as I don't have any other immediate family. It makes me sad that he cannot just come along and wish me a happy day without making demands. I'm thinking about reaching out one final time just before I have to confirm final numbers?
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Usernamegone · 10/08/2016 09:06
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