So I have been seeing someone for around 6 months, he is lovey! Very considerate and thoughtful and is genuinely interested in me and my life and my dc. I have know him for a long time but at a distance until we got involved.
We started seeing each other and got on so well, I love taking to him. Normally I get bored of people so easily but that hasn't happened this time.
He is great with my dd she loves him and we have spent a lot of time together the three of us and it is fun!
But and this is the big but, before this boyfriend I have been single for ages! I was involved with someone who didn't want a relationship and dated lots of other guys but didn't trust any of them or like them as a friend. So none of them met my dd.
Now when we all spend time together as much as it is fun and I feel comfortable I think I also feel frustrated because I can't have sex with him when I want or touch him or anything as my dd is there. All the other guys I saw was mostly about sex and I could just keep them outside of my life and that was fine.
Even though I like the three of us being together I feel abit like it's maybe taking the excitement out of it for me, we have spent a lot of time together recently and I think I feel less turned on and more comfortable. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I think I am rambling now. What I am getting at is does it change things having dc around? Will it make things less exciting and sexy?
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New relationship, I'm finding it odd to have dc involved! Feels like it's slowing the excitement!
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Slowprogress · 09/08/2016 22:50
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