My new boyfriend is thinking of moving to a location that would put him 2.5 hours away from where I live (he's currently 20 miles from me).
We both have busy job, both have dogs, both have children from previous relationships in different locations so life is busy already and we have a lot to deal with.
I don't /won't /can't ever move to where he is going - at leats for for 3 - 4 years and I feel sure that it is too far away for us to easily see each other or form any sort of real life together.
I feel, for certain that if he moves, we are going to have to end our relationship. He is moving for convenience to friends / family. We have been together three months and there has been definite future talk and I think we love each other.
What should I do? Say something? what should I say? don't want to give an ultimatum but it feels like this decision will end us.
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Would you say something about him moving
janicejoplinslyrics · 06/08/2016 10:10
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