My DH who is in his 50s, has a drug problem that I cannot tolerate. He denies there is a problem though he is taking cocaine and ecstasy 2-3 times a week, stays out very late, sometimes all night and drinks heavily as well. We argue and he threatens to move out. Our DCs are almost grown up now, though still at home, and I often wish he would just go. However as there is no violence in our relationship I have no grounds for forcing him out. This situation has been going on for 4 years or so now and shows no sign of stopping. We sleep apart and he has begun to lock himself in the spare room when he is in the house. He treats me as though I am in the wrong and trying to spoil his fun. I sometimes doubt myself. Am I the one who is overreacting? I feel like I am losing my grip sometimes.
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