Ok I've been thinking about this phrase today. It's something I've used myself but I wanted your opinions. Just musing really.
If a man awakens certain feelings in you, maybe has sex with you, creates a sense of intimacy and connection then cuts off. It's normal to have some kind of reaction, right?
I'm not necessarily talking turning up at their house crying, although that can be justified in some cases. Ok I'm not talking about harassment which is wrong. But more when a woman questions a situation, shows any emotion or gets angry.
Sometimes this reaction can be misplaced. But I think women are then left questioning themselves at how they got it all wrong, when in fact, it's the man who has pushed the interaction to a certain level then retreated suddenly.
I see this happen so much. Literally constantly to friends on the dating scene and in relationships. Then they are always the ones who look "crazy".
Why do men come off as the reasonable ones in this scenario?
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TealLove · 01/08/2016 22:46
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