I have posted before, but just changed my username.
We have 2 gorgeous DDs. DD1 is ours, biologically. DD2 is adopted (I wasn't sure if I should post here or on the adoption board). I'm talking 8 years ago now though. We haven't had any other behaviour of this nature, only when she was really young and she first came into our home, but that wasn't towards any family members only herself. She has had some behavioural difficulties, but nothing too extreme, just occasional violence at school and bad language.
I do think she is testing her boundaries, but it isn't appropriate. We have tried telling her and spoken to some support networks but tbh, in a way, it's making her worse, as she is seeing this as us not loving her which is exactly what we don't want, as it has taken so long to build that relationship up. We provide her with lots of kisses and cuddles and have been advised to stop that for a short while so it doesn't encourage the pushing of the boundaries, which we tried for a couple of days and also explained to DD1 (who is a couple of years older) that we won't be providing her with them as it's unfair but it will only be temporary for her to then get stroppy with DD2 and us, so that really isn't working.
I'm at my wits end, never had anything like this.
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DD(12) has been inappropriate towards DH.
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