in short DH had an affair, and has been living at a friends house for a few months. We've been spending time together for last 5 weeks but that's been him visiting the home. There have been issues which I've posted about and he's been emotionally distant. Last Sunday I told him we needed a break for a while. DH showed up out of the blue Thursday to see me. Text me a lot over Friday and came to visit yesterday. I was surprised as he wanted to hold me, kiss me and he's said he wants us to be together, as a couple and family. He's sorry for everything.
I was surprised, confused and didn't know how to react, couldn't take it in.
I don't quite know what to do, I do love him but I've also got used to being on my own, so have DDs (11/13). I think we should try to work this out for all of our sakes, we used to be so good together, I just don't know where to start. I'm not too ready for him moving back in (we've not discussed it) but if I leave it much longer will it push us apart even more. Any thoughts on how I go about this?
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So, how do we go about reconciling?
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LippyLiz · 31/07/2016 17:09
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