My financial divorce settlement has never been sorted .
Mediation was halted due to my ex not providing disclosure and telling the truth.
10 yrs later: I've been in the marital home paying all the bills, kids, sch fees, house maintaince . Everything , my ex pays nothing to me at all. I'm feeling trapped!!
House prices have since increased by £300k in this time ( house valued this wk) and my ex says he wants 50% . Even though it seems a fortune it is relative to the
Location in the country . My children are in the final years of high sch and relocating is not an option .
I run a business from home , my client base is 5 Mile radius and need the floor space to carry on my business , as smaller house would reduce my income by 50 % .
There is no pension pots . My ex has had all the savings, endowments ( owns a second property , which he rcvd a small rental income from which is 200 miles away )
I cannot get a mortgage as I'm self employed and my net income is low.
My new partner of 5 yrs is willing to sell his house to by out my ex but my ex is will not accept that as s solution .
I'm going to start a 2nd lot of mediation on my own, and frightened the whole thing is going to financially get out of hand and cost £££££
Please help-
Has anyone experience settlement or have any further solutions ??
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Solutions to 10 yrs of negotiations
newshoes68 · 30/07/2016 18:32
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