Hi I posted on the 8 June asking what a works .com was . I'm updating my situation and need some help and advice .after the advice I should have listened to I decided to let him stay and sort things out .we already had aioli day booked before I found out about him being on aworks on that holiday he said he would rather kill himself than lose me that he loved me and did not want to leave me I decided to see if I could forgive him .only to find more so all through one month he every other day he had been paying epoch multi med one was for £15 and pence then another payment similar price and then some more payments made to them of less using PayPal twice to pay epoch multi med then a payment of £32 to epoch .com I can't find anything on this but I feel it is more rubbish does anyone know about this site and what is he paying for I confronted him saying I knew it was another adult site even though I just get sent to site that says put in your password ect if you have a problem with payment I did confront him he just put his head down and said I don't use it anymore all he would say is I stopped becouse they were crap I said well you have been using all theses sites for nearly 2 yrs that I know of now and you have spent a lot of money what were you getting for £32 and all the others money you spent so they can't have been that crap he put his head down he said he would wipe his phone clean even though there's nothing on it.he won't give me any info or let me look at the sights he won't give me his password he just keeps saying he never had accounts with them he has also changed his bank so he has anew account now he left his old bank saying he done all this for me to make me feel secure he has cancelled his master card ripped it up so he says he said I can read all his bank statements but now he has got online banking were he doesn't get postal statements I told him I want to read them I am such a mess I keep going on at him he keeps getting annoyed and just walks away becouse I was trying to talk to him about what he has done he got annoyed and said my few days off work and your doing this .i have no strength left at all I'm numb .i do love him iv given up a lot for him .please I need to know if any one can help what epoch multi med is and what epoch .com is I can't live like this I have no trust left at all god I feel like a freak I feel he has chosen them over me because I'm ugly and haven't got what they have to offer .but I know it's not right I'm thin not ugly I don't have huge breasts I'm just a mere 36 b but there not horrible I let him have what he wants which is mainly oral and anal amongst what ever he wants I never turn him away I'm loving and affectionate to him what did I wrong guys
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