Whenever a woman on here talks about being in a relationship with a married man, everyone piles in to say that he'll never leave, he's a bastard, he's leading her on, etc. yet there are so many women on here who have been left by their husbands for OW who they claim to love.
Sometimes the man comes clean and says he loves someone else. Sometimes the wife finds messages or other evidences; declarations of love and the like.
It seems like when it's the wife talking, everyone offers support saying it happened to them, he met someone else, fell in love, behaved like a shit and left for the OW. When it's an OW talking, it's always about how he'll never leave.
What's the reality?
My exhusband met someone else while we were still married. i hesitate to say it was an affair because he didn't love me, I didn't love him, we hadn't had a 'relationship' for years. We functioned as two adults living in a house and bringing up two children, but no more than that.
Anyone telling her that they'd never be together would have been wrong. Having said that, I didn't find out about the relationship, but I did find evidence he was 'looking' elsewhere and kicked him out. I was really only looking for a reason. But he said that he had no intention of leaving, and still considers that it was me who ended the marriage because he had no intention of leaving. He should have. Our 'marriage' was a shit sham. He deserves to be happy and I probably do too. Just haven't found my happily ever after yet.
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IHopeThatIDontFallInLove · 30/07/2016 00:00
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