My girlfriend goes away with the scouts (she's been a scout since she was a baby) they're camping abroad for 3 weeks & everyone else will be adults there (kind of a mini jamboree). I'm worried because I'll miss her like crazy whilst she's gone, I also worry that some of the guys will try to flirt with her and try and sleep with her, I do trust her as much as I can but I'm not a very trusting person. I'm a little worried that after a couple of weeks if she's getting on with a guy really well maybe her feelings will fade a bit and she'll be taken in the moment (so to speak).
I know it's not something I should worry about as if it happens, it happens and there's nothing I can do about it, but that doesn't stop my mind from taking me there.
She's going with a guy that likes her (romantically) and has done for years ( I don't see him as much of a threat as he's a little odd & not much of a looker) but still not keen on that idea either.
And lastly I'm just a bit down about the whole thing, she's gone for 3 weeks & we've not been apart more than 4-5 days at a time since we've been together. I'm just going to really miss her (pathetic, I know).
To give you some context on our relationship, we're completely in love with each other, have planned our kids names etc. Talk about marriage and being together for life, been on holidays together & we're best friends. I just worry about losing it all.
have any of you had long holidays away from your partner & how did you cope?
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Worried about Girlfriend going away for 3 weeks
user1469724650 · 28/07/2016 17:53
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