Hi, I'm a regular but have name changed for this. Hope this is the right place for this thread.
DH and I have a 13month old DD. She's a typical young toddler; cruises round furniture, crawls, and has the occasional fall.
The problem is if DD falls, or hurts herself in anyway while DH is home, he gets really angry with me and assumes it was automatically my fault. He walks in takes her off me, even if I've calmed her down and she's happy with me, then walks off with her and won't speak to me for a few hours.
For example, a few weeks ago DD was sat with me on the bed. She crawled to the edge and I grabbed her leg to stop her falling forwards but she kicked out with her other leg and launched herself forwards anyway. I wasn't fast enough to stop her falling forwards so she was dangling by one leg off the bed, banged her head on our wooden frame and was crying. She was fine, but DH shouted at me saying I should take better care of her as accidents are always caused by something, generally human error. He then took her off me, despite me managing to calm her down, and then he took her to his mums for two hours without replying to my texts or calls.
Similar happened today. DD was cruising round the furniture in the living room, I was sat in the armchair watching TV and keeping my eye on her. She leaned forward with one hand to grab a toy off the floor, took her other hand off the chair and slipped, falling forwards and banging her head on the harth. I wasn't fast enough to catch her, and again DH swoops in and takes her off me, told me I should of put my leg out to stop her falling and then walked off with her into the garden - I did put my leg out to try and stop her, she still fell.
Both times she's been fine after a cuddle and some water/milk. I think accidents happen, especially with toddlers but I want to know are these accidents my fault? Is DH just overprotective of DD or should I be worried it's something deeper?
Thanks
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Overprotective dad or something more?
WifeoftheOverprotective · 25/07/2016 14:03
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