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Who has kissed a woman? (Inspired by many recent threads)

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Pome90210 · 24/07/2016 22:11

So, out of curiosity due to quite a few recent threads on the topic, who of those who are in relationships with men have kissed women?

Have just realised at middle age that I never have, but am not opposed to the idea.. what is it like in comparison to men?

admittedly I am quite drunk and have a bit of a crush on a female friend

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NeedAScarfForMyGiraffe · 24/07/2016 22:14

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Pome90210 · 24/07/2016 22:16

I have had too many ciders so please don't introduce crap songs to the thread

croons Katy Perry Grin

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MummyBex1985 · 24/07/2016 23:06

I have. Perfectly straight though.

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Wolfiefan · 24/07/2016 23:07

I must be drunk too. Read that as "spoons Katy Perry!"Shock

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Pome90210 · 24/07/2016 23:09

I would not like to spoon Katy Perry. She's a bit scrawny for me Grin

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MissPricklePants · 24/07/2016 23:09

I have but I'm a lesbian!

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Dachshund · 24/07/2016 23:10

Many a time. Exactly the same as men - although I go for tall bearded guys generally so was put off by smooth soft cheeks and the shortness!

I guess also different on that I have zero sexual attraction to women so didn't feel anything when kissing them

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UchimuraBabies · 24/07/2016 23:11

I have, once. I was very drunk and I basically came to my senses realising she and I were kissing. It was nice, but it didn't flick a switch or anything. A good memory and nothing else.

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Purplemonkeydishwasherpimp · 25/07/2016 00:31

I've kissed maaaany girls, I've never been in a relationship with a woman however.

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Purplemonkeydishwasherpimp · 25/07/2016 00:32

I say girl as i was singing katy perry in my head...

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Doinmummy · 25/07/2016 00:36

I have never kissed a woman and not sure I ever would , even when drunk .

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PsychedelicSheep · 25/07/2016 00:42

I've kissed a few girls (and done more with a couple). It's softer and slower generally I would say. More sensual. I liked it 😉

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FeedMyFaceWithJaffaCakes · 25/07/2016 00:56

I have kissed five women and had full sex with two. It was lovely.
Currently my gorgeous male DP is sound asleep next to me :)
Guess I just go with the flow?

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Pome90210 · 25/07/2016 01:13

Out of curiosity (and stupidity) what is half sex?!

Katy Perry doesn't mention that bit HmmGrin

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PonchosLament · 25/07/2016 10:24

I have snogged etc a couple but no more.

Not really fussed about it though.

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NeedACleverNN · 25/07/2016 10:27

Yep. Kissed them and had sex with them.

I would say it was experimentation in college but in reality I am still attracted to them and would happily do it all over again.

I am married to my DH now and we have been toying with the idea of a 3 some one day. Still haven't completely ruled it out

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proseccowithastraw · 25/07/2016 10:42

Women are more likely to be more open and fluid about their sexuality, so I suspect loads of women will say they've 'given it a go' at least.

Kissing a woman ime is sooooo much hotter and sensual than kissing a man. I am in a relationship with a woman now and identify as bisexual. I still occasionally find a man attractive, but I NEVER fantasise about kissing a man. It does nothing for me anymore. I can understand...other stuff, but kissing for me is only enjoyable with a woman.

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FeedMyFaceWithJaffaCakes · 25/07/2016 10:43

Well I meant everything and anything Blush
Didn't know how else to describe it...

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proseccowithastraw · 25/07/2016 11:05

Ah ok, well obviously I have, otherwise my gf might be wondering what's going on Grin

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peasareevilcreatures · 25/07/2016 11:08

I did for the first time last year and I must say, I kissed a girl and I liked it Grin

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proseccowithastraw · 25/07/2016 11:14

pea, just remember, if it feels so wrong, but feels so right, it don't mean you're in love tonight.....

Wink Grin

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Czerny88 · 25/07/2016 12:49

Not in a relationship with a man, but consider myself heterosexual. While I can appreciate a woman's beauty, the idea of kissing a woman doesn't appeal at all and I've never been sexually attracted to another woman or fantasized about being sexually intimate with another woman.

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proseccowithastraw · 25/07/2016 12:58

Czerny, yep. You sound pretty straight.

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ladybagpuss · 25/07/2016 14:02

I've had relationships with women. It can be softer and more sensual, so yes it's lovely kissing another woman (anywhere Wink).

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