Just pondering. I'm 36 and have had an unhappy marriage, two short relationships where I was dumped and a relationship now which is going wrong and I don't know if we will survive. I suffer from anxiety, depression and low self esteem. I think deep down I don't think I deserve love and my life so far seems to prove that to me. People always say that you have to be happy alone before you have a happy relationship. So if you never achieve that, does it mean you can never have a relationship?
I'm on ads. I have had cbt. I have had counselling. I've tried, I've really tried. But I'm not sure I'll ever really get there.
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Is it impossible to find real love when you have low self esteem?
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Patheticfallacy · 23/07/2016 11:22
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