He's leaving tomorrow, or so I've been told. I can't put my finger on why I want him gone I just do.
But I'm so worried about the future we have 2 dcs. Ds who's 3 is non verbal and on the autism spectrum and dd who's 2 can't walk and is also non verbal.
Dp is great with the kids does his fair share if not more of house work. But I want him gone.
I hate the way he talks at me not to me. He had no interest in what I have to say as long as he gets his point across.
He makes me feel like a shit parent because I don't take the dcs out every single day. Or I don't go around after them picking up their toys.
He says all I do is sit and expect catered to when in reality anytime I try to get up to sort something or get something I'm told to sit down and made to feel like I'm in the way. Ds doesn't like when I leave the room I'm always trying to keep everyone happy.
But I'm no peach either apparently I nag all the time he's always on eggshells. He's happier when I'm not around than when I am.
I just need to vent not sure how to end this post do you think I'm right to end things we've been together 10 years. I'm only 27.
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Standingonmytippytoes · 20/07/2016 23:10
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