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I dont think we 'gel'

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needresolution Wed 20-Jul-16 13:29:02

I've been seeing an older man for a year now (live separately now) and for the most part we have had some nice times and the kids like him. I decided to buy a house earlier on in the year and the talk of progressing things between us ie: moving in together became apparent and I liked the idea and that became the 'plan'.

Now that I've got the house and we've been busy decorating, I'm not sure that moving in together is something I want, some of the things he says fills me with dread (hes very tidy) he gets stressed easily and doesn't sleep well - I do stress but need a decent nights sleep.

We booked a holiday earlier in the year with my kids and now I'm worried about it all, I really don't know what to do, obviously I need to say something but don't know how to broach the

TheNaze73 Wed 20-Jul-16 14:24:04

I think you just need to be open, honest & direct with him

ravenmum Wed 20-Jul-16 14:28:15

A year is not long, especially when you have children. Say you've been thinking it over and you want to take it more slowly.

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