I've been here a while and often post about how desperately crap and lonely I feel when I'm feeling, well, desperately crap and lonely!
I didn't have a great upbringing and have had the associated and obligatory shit relationship experiences as a result.
I'm currently single, have been for a year, and with a view to remaining that way until I can trust myself to, er, trust myself, my judgement and anyone I enter into a relationship with, should that ever happen again.
The one thing I keep being told on here and IRL is that I need to love myself first. I get this. But, if I'm perfectly honest with you, I don't know what it means!
I have tried to do things to improve my self esteem and stuff (which I'm guessing is linked to it!), but it's not really having any lasting impact.
It's not even really about meeting someone else or having a relationship, at this stage, it's just about being able to live with myself on a daily basis.
Thanks.
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"Love yourself" what does it mean?
PonchosLament · 18/07/2016 23:17
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