I was seeing a guy for around 3 months, but we decided we wanted different things and only really saw each other as friends so have decided to end it.
After a period of no contact, he messaged me and we got chatting about all sorts - about dates, about why we didn't work out and about how we missed the sex (it was always very good).
So we ended up with him coming over to mine, we had sex (I believe this is called a booty call ) and chatted for a while about what would happen next - we've laid out some ground rules and decided to try out a 'friends with benefits' type relationship - on the understanding that we will be very open and honest with our feelings and the moment that one of us meets someone the 'benefits' bit will stop.
Is this a terrible idea?! or something that could just be some harmless fun? He was the one who actually brought up that the relationship wasn't working so I'm pretty sure this isn't some kind of attempt to win me back. Neither one of us has done anything like this before and last night we were laughing at how mad it all was.
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friends with benefits - does it ever work?
happyendings3 · 18/07/2016 11:34
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