I found out 2 weeks ago there is a strong chance my DP has been having an EA at best, a physical affair at worst. He has denied it and tried to convince me nothing has happened. I could list all the things that don't add up but suffice to say I don't believe him.
I should add here I want to believe him. I love him and thought our relationship was solid. I would never have thought he would do this, not in a hundred years.
However I've read too much on MN to believe everything he has told me.
We are on a break just now, as I am on holiday with my D.C. When we get back I have to make a decision. This is my problem...if he absolutely refuses to tell me everything how can we move forward? We can't, can we? By not telling me the truth he is taking away any chance of recovering from this.
If I end things as they are will I be plagued by doubts that I was wrong? That he is telling the truth. My gut says I am right, but 2 weeks ago my gut would have sworn he would never have done this.
Thoughts appreciated. I am in turmoil.
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How to cope with being lied to
nowaybaby · 18/07/2016 11:21
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