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Thanks! I'm free!

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timetogetridofhischeatingarse Sat 16-Jul-16 21:02:27

Women (and men) of the Mumsnet relationships board, I never posted about my problems but I just want to say thank you!

Thanks to posters on this board, I’ve thrown my lying, prostitute-using, porn-addicted excuse for a DP out of the house after 16 years. Without your advice I’d have crumbled sometime during the two years since I first started to suspect something. I’d have believed him when he said he was depressed, that he was only looking, that he would never do anything... thank god I knew about the script and the minimising and the fact I probably wasn’t the one with the problem even though he insisted that I was.

So thank you to all the women in similar situations who post on these boards – it doesn’t make me happier to find there are more people going through what I have, but your advice was really helpful as I lurked in disbelief. My DC and I can get on with our lives now. smile

SpeedyMcStupiderson Sat 16-Jul-16 21:06:41


SharonfromEON Sat 16-Jul-16 21:09:20

Well done for making a positive decision for you and your DC


Flisspaps Sat 16-Jul-16 21:09:40

Welcome to the rest of your life grinwinecakeflowersstar

timetogetridofhischeatingarse Sat 16-Jul-16 21:25:04

Thanks again smile.

cake and wine and flowers are all good. I have more time for them now I'm not trying to save a doomed relationship in vain.

AnyFucker Sat 16-Jul-16 21:25:59


FreeFromHarm Sat 16-Jul-16 21:39:27

Well done , enjoy your freedom 🍾

Resilience16 Sat 16-Jul-16 21:51:41

I am SO pleased for you! Well done and good luck x

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