I've been separated for two years & have 4 yo DD. Ex doesn't work & I work full time. Ex has DD one night a week & switches them when he wants but doesn't agree to my switches. We haven't divorced & there is no set arrangements but he is just obstructive to any of my request. Namely this weekend, he said he couldn't have DD this evening when I've seen that he is actually home (said he was away). Annoyingly, I have v little support (& no family support) so end up just agreeing to his switches just to give me a night off & save babysitting. Ex isn't committing to helping out with school pick up (starts September) says if & when he gets a job he would never be able to help anyway. Any pointers on how to help with difficult people....
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