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Mourn the end of my marriage with me

9 replies

babbinocaro · 15/07/2016 19:13

Just this...I'm done..with the contempt, the iphone dominating our time "together", being left with all the grunt work as he exercises obsessively, putting on a face at family events as he puts on his best side and smiles/sniffs around female company, being talked down to, feeling immense sadness and not being able to share it, questioning myself, my own worth.
Just pissed off that I have to be the one to bring it to a close because after years of trying he hasn't found a soft landing..

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ButteredToastAndStrawberryJam · 15/07/2016 19:18

You're not on your own.
He sounds spineless.

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newworldnow · 15/07/2016 20:04

Sounds to me like you can do much better than this preening prick.

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Aussiemum78 · 15/07/2016 20:08

Celebrate the beginning of a new life. He sounds shit.

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StickTheDMWhereTheSunDontShine · 15/07/2016 20:12

Mourn? Sounds worthy of a celebration, to me. FlowersWine

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something2say · 15/07/2016 21:06

Is it a relief yet?
Sad, but the questions answered at last?

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Resilience16 · 15/07/2016 21:08

Don't mourn,celebrate! Good riddance to that eejit, now bring on the good times!

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toadgirl · 15/07/2016 21:18

you've put down the oars to find you were the only one rowing the boat - you are right to stop wasting time and effort on this man

you've no doubt lost so much with this man - start thinking about all you will gain when he's out of your life

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pegomassive1 · 15/07/2016 21:20

He sounds like a catch. Not.
FlowersWineChocolateCake

Good on you have you told him?

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Puff42 · 15/07/2016 22:18

Sounds like you're making the sane choice. He sounds like a complete douche. How are you feeling about it?

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