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Mourn the end of my marriage with me

(10 Posts)
babbinocaro Fri 15-Jul-16 19:13:12

Just this...I'm done..with the contempt, the iphone dominating our time "together", being left with all the grunt work as he exercises obsessively, putting on a face at family events as he puts on his best side and smiles/sniffs around female company, being talked down to, feeling immense sadness and not being able to share it, questioning myself, my own worth.
Just pissed off that I have to be the one to bring it to a close because after years of trying he hasn't found a soft landing..

ButteredToastAndStrawberryJam Fri 15-Jul-16 19:18:56

You're not on your own.
He sounds spineless.

newworldnow Fri 15-Jul-16 20:04:47

Sounds to me like you can do much better than this preening prick.

Aussiemum78 Fri 15-Jul-16 20:08:37

Celebrate the beginning of a new life. He sounds shit.

StickTheDMWhereTheSunDontShine Fri 15-Jul-16 20:12:13

Mourn? Sounds worthy of a celebration, to me. flowerswine

something2say Fri 15-Jul-16 21:06:51

Is it a relief yet?
Sad, but the questions answered at last?

Resilience16 Fri 15-Jul-16 21:08:27

Don't mourn,celebrate! Good riddance to that eejit, now bring on the good times!

toadgirl Fri 15-Jul-16 21:18:23

you've put down the oars to find you were the only one rowing the boat - you are right to stop wasting time and effort on this man

you've no doubt lost so much with this man - start thinking about all you will gain when he's out of your life

pegomassive1 Fri 15-Jul-16 21:20:18

He sounds like a catch. Not.
flowerswinechocolatecake

Good on you have you told him?

Puff42 Fri 15-Jul-16 22:18:50

Sounds like you're making the sane choice. He sounds like a complete douche. How are you feeling about it?

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