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Feel like life is falling apart

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Runninglife Fri 15-Jul-16 07:53:45

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pallasathena Fri 15-Jul-16 09:47:55

You need to breathe! And once you have then take stock of where you are, how you got there and where you want to be.
You say you love the country you're in so what's to stop you getting a working visa in your own right? Check it out. If you're not currently working then maybe see if there's something that you could apply for that would come with a working visa which will allow you to say in the country.If that's not possible, then come home, get qualifications that would give you access to a job over there and apply for it. Anything is possible o/p with the right mindset and a bit of strategy.
Next, tell your partner that its over. Hard, yes, tough, of course, but if you want to fulfil your dream of having children then you need to find someone who is on the same page as you. Staying with your partner will just prolong the agony and the biological clock is very likely ticking. So, big changes for you which means taking charge of your destiny.

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