Sounds like the wrong word for it, but I am.
I'm a regular poster but have NC'd as my brother and mother know my username on here.
DC1 who is 3 was being a bit naughty and started to fling a rubber toy at DC2 who is 5 months. DH got angry with her and actually pushed/shoved her backwards hard enough to make her fall on her back onto DC2s play gym.
She's OK but was shocked her Dad did this and I must confess I lost it at him. It's just so out of character - he's been moodier recently but I've known him 10 years and I've never known him to be physically aggressive with anyone.
He could've really harmed DC1 though and he didn't apologise at all.
It's really made me think differently of him to be honest. As this is the first he's ever done something like this I'm not rushing to assume he's some hidden thug but I will talk to him when alone and if he ever does something like that again I'll leave him, no questions asked.
Never thought I'd be posting this to be honest. Not sure why I am really just don't want to talk to anyone especially him at the moment.
Please try your best not to be nasty to me if you can help it.
Honestly he's never behaved in such a way even when drunk, an ex was harassing me etc so no idea where this came from.
Sorry if that's incoherent.
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YoureALizardHarry · 12/07/2016 21:31
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