Need some guidance and advice from a female point of view.
I occasionally use a fairly popular dating app which has a bit of a reputation for hook-ups (it's not Tinder). I haven't used it for ages but had a look last night and found in the 'Friends' section that my profile had been linked via Facebook to someone I know so I was able to see their dating profile.
I didn't knowingly make the link but that's not important. What is important is that the other person is my brother-in-law.
I can read his profile and it states he is looking to date, lives alone and is in an open relationship. He's not. He's married to my sister in what appears to be a very happy family with two children. He does, however, work away from home a lot.
I'm somewhat surprised and pretty angry and I've been agonising about what to do about it.
I think the options are:
A) Go directly to my sister and tell her what I found (devastating)
B) Contact him and ask for an explanation
C) Do nothing and forever view him with an evil eye
One of the photos on his profile is with his top off so no doubting the intent. The photos look about three years old but that's not an indication of a timeline.
Oddly though, my profile is also linked to his so if he has used the app recently he MUST know that I know.
What should I do?
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