I need some opinions please - I feel completely headfucked and can not see clear anymore
Little bit of background - been with my partner for just over a year now, I'm pregnant (due end of the month), have a 2 year old daughter to my ex partner.
Have had my suspicions that he's abusive for a long time - I say suspicions because I don't know if I'm being hormonal, if he's justified in what he does or that I'm being blind or over reacting. This morning we had a trivial argument that escalated into him getting ready n having his dad turn up at my/our house to pick him up. He says he was Gona o out to give me time to calm down (I was perfectly calm just didn't want to talk to him because he'd upset me) I told him it's pathetic and that he was bailing on me in an argument. Long story short he's about to leave when he says "don't use this as an excuse to have your ex round here!" I got mad and told him he'd gone too far and to leave, went to read
My daughter a story, whilst trying to read it he's in the doorway saying the exact same sentence over and over and over again and when I say stop he demands I answer him. My daughter started crying which made me cry so I told him to leave he asked if its over so I said yes n he went mad asking again and again and again if I meant it? I'm trying to comfort my daughter n he starts TELLING me he will be back later and that we are going to sort things, o told him not to bother and he continues to ignore me telling me he will be back. I lost my rag, told him he's abusive and has no respect for me or my daughter and to get out, he refused so I went out to his dad and asked him to get him out, next thing my partner is telling me to fuck off, got the phone he gave me and threw it at my legs! He's never gone so far as to throw something at me. I'm so upset and confused. What the fuck do I do now?!
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ricecrispies16 · 11/07/2016 13:02
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