Have you ever had lots of hopes and expectations for a lovely holiday and then got there and found it to be pretty awful?
I am currently on holiday with my partner. We have been together for three years. The first year was fab! The second and this year...not so. I think I am going through the menopause (rather badly) and I suffer from anxiety and now it seems depression.
I was hoping this holiday would improve things between us and even help me to feel better, but it isn't at all.
I wasn't very well before we came (no idea what it was, maybe a virus, could have been a reaction to HRT) and have still been feeling unwell since we got here.
I booked the holiday cottage. It looked lovely in the pictures...not quite so in reality. It is cramped, tired looking, etc. The garden overgrown.
It has rained almost constantly since we got here on Friday!
My OH told his brother he wanted to treat me because I worked hard to help him with his ex wife taking him to the cleaners ( the end result wasn't as bad as it could have been. I have a degree in law) but I have paid for this lousy holiday.
I don't feel romantic, don't feel like making love, don't feel like doing much at all.
And I don't enjoy our home life (or where we live) either. So I am not looking forward to going home either. I spend every day alone there.
In our first year together, I was happy but now I feel isolated, despairing, depressed and anxious and trapped. It's as if everything has changed.
And this holiday somehow highlights all that.
I have tried really really hard to improve my life but nothing has worked, and doctors also never take me seriously.
Any ideas or should I just jump off the Brecon Beacons now (I'm in Wales!)
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Horrible holiday (and life really)...help!
goldsilver · 11/07/2016 07:47
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